Craigslist buyer or seller: how to tell if they're real

On Craigslist, a real buyer or seller is someone who will meet you in person, in a public place, and pay or get paid there. A fake one needs something before that meeting: money up front, a shipping address, a check for more than the price, or a "verification code" from your phone. If a stranger needs any of those first, you have your answer.

What Craigslist itself tells you

Craigslist's own advice fits in one line: "Deal locally, face-to-face," which it says avoids "the vast majority of scam attempts." Its help pages add a short list of things that are scams every time: requests to wire money, to pay with gift cards, or to deposit a cashier's check. It warns that escrow and "guaranteed" payment services can be scams, and that you shouldn't hand over bank details, payment-app logins, or personal information like your Social Security number. A good interaction, in Craigslist's words, uses the site's mail relay to talk about a specific item and arranges "to meet in a safe, public place."

Most of that is about money. The people part is shorter, and it's where the newer scams live.

The "verify you're a real person" scam

One line on Craigslist's list deserves its own section: requests for a "code" or "verification" are "always a scam." It usually goes like this. A buyer messages about your listing, says they've heard about fake listings, and wants to make sure you're a real person. Then a text arrives with a code, and they ask you to read it back.

The FTC describes the same script. The code is from Google Voice, and with it the scammer creates a Google Voice number linked to your phone number, then uses that number to cheat other people, so the trail leads back to you. The FTC's advice is blunt: don't share a verification code with anyone who contacted you first. "That's a scam, every time."

Notice the trick: it borrows your own caution. "Are you real?" is a fair question on Craigslist, which is exactly why scammers use it. The safe rule is that real proof never needs anything from the person being asked to check it. No code, no payment, no account.

Other red flags on Craigslist

Checks that work, and their limits

For pickups at your address, our longer guide covers the meetup itself: Facebook Marketplace meetup safety. The same buyer questions come up there too: see how to tell if a Facebook Marketplace buyer is real.

Where a signed selfie fits

Because "verify you're real" is a known Craigslist script, it matters how proof works, not just whether it exists. With Authentk, the person proving takes a selfie in the app, and their iPhone signs it at the moment it's taken. The person checking needs nothing: they open the link or scan the QR code to see when it was taken, then upload the photo they were sent. They see "Photo Matches" if it's the signed original and "Photo Does Not Match" if it was changed or swapped. No app, no code, no account for them. See what a verified photo looks like.

You can also send a request so a buyer or seller takes a live photo for you. That's a bigger ask: they need an iPhone, the free app, and a sign-up with their phone number. On Craigslist, a stranger who won't install an app for a $40 chair is being sensible, not suspicious, so use requests for the bigger moments, like someone coming to your home. Either way, it shows a real, current photo; it doesn't prove who someone is legally, it isn't an ID check, and it says nothing about whether the deal is honest.

Authentk proves a selfie is real: taken now, by that person, unedited. Free iPhone beta.

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Questions

A Craigslist buyer wants to verify I'm real with a code. Is that a scam?

Yes. Craigslist says requests for a code or verification are always a scam, and the FTC agrees: someone who contacted you and asks for a code sent to your phone wants to set up a Google Voice number linked to your phone number. Don't send the code, stop replying, and report the post or the message.

Is it safe to meet a Craigslist buyer or seller in person?

Meeting face to face is what Craigslist recommends, because it rules out most payment and shipping scams. Pick a busy public place in daylight, or a police safe exchange zone if your town has one, bring someone along for large items, and don't hand over the item or the money until you've both seen what you came for.

How can I prove to a Craigslist buyer that I'm real without being sketchy?

Offer proof that asks nothing of them: no code, no payment, no account. Keep talking through Craigslist's mail relay, agree to meet in public, and if they want more, send a photo of yourself they can check without installing anything. Never send a code, and never ask them for one.

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